7 SIMPLE THINGS MEN WISH WOMEN KNOW ABOUT THEM

"My dear, am not emotionally dead, I think about you all the  time. Every little thing reminds me of you even though I don't know how to express it. Most times my own thoughts confuses me, but believe me or not, you are always on my mind". That was Desmond trying to convince Jane of his love for her after reconciling themselves.

Most women think their men aren't thinking about them, the believe  that all they do is watch football match, hangout with friends, have business lunches and other stuffs but take it or leave it, girlfriend, they are actually thinking about you. *winks* well I don't know how truth that is, but they claim so. While I was chatting with my male folks, I discovered several things they wish women in their lives know about them and they are :-

1.   LOOKS AREN'T ALL THAT MATTERS 

For a woman its just all about the physical appearance but to a man its a deeper connection that is more than the physical, it's a heart to heart talk, couples chat and building of strong family tides.  

2.   RESPECT IS CONSTANT 

Yes it is. It doesn't matter who makes the money or who makes more money just make him feel, he is the boss. Respect is compulsory and must be given to him. I know most girls may disagree with me, but note these, when respect meets the right person it becomes reciprocal if not the reverse will be the cases. Ladies be warned, choose your Mr. Right with caution.  

3.   NATURAL BEAUTY TRIGGERS THE HEART

A man once said that, "superficial beauty draws the attention but natural beauty keeps it". Man appreciates your dressing and make up here and there but sometimes they wish you can just be real.

4.   WE ENJOY COMPLIMENTS TOO

Yes, what is worth doing is worth doing well. Just as you like compliments for a good dish you prepared so do a man need compliments for anything good he has done. If you don't give it to them, they don't mind traveling to the ends of the earth to find it.

5.   SUPRISES ISN'T A BAD IDEA EITHER 

Throw him a surprise birthday, anniversary or take him out. Just anything surprising you know he did like.

6.   TRUST HIM ALL THE WAY 

Whether good or bad, trust me . Even if I have betrayed the trust before, please forgive me and trust me because when you don't trust me it becomes difficult for me to do something right because I know that no one cares. To the guys, when you are been trusted, please don't betray the trust. 

7.   MEN ARE INSECURE 

Men are afraid of not meeting up at work and at home, although they hardly admit it but it's always starring them in their faces. All they need is an affirmation from you, assuring words and encouragement that all is well. When they get it from you, the right person, they feel secured.

Have a great week and don't forget to throw in your opinion.